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My name is Melvin Clear. I am a proud 27 year old virgin anxiously waiting for the right woman to share the gift of God’s special love between a man and a woman. Not until the wedding night, of course. On this site, I share my thoughts about the proper role of sex, and why I believe that not having sex is so important.
This is written for that special someone that I have not yet met.
I know that I will find you soon, our destinies been set
And when we find each other we will know its meant to be
Two hearts still pure, we both can give, one another’s virginity
Oh sure, there have been temptations crossing cross my path
But when a painted woman tempts, I just give a hearty laugh
You can not take from me, I say, what belongs to another
That one and special gift I give to my one and only lover.
Experts say that the divorce rate is now 50%, which means almost one out of every two couples gets divorced. That is pretty appalling. Things did not used to be that way.
There was a time when women were treated as women. That’s the way they expect to be treated. Now we treat them as whores.
The real truth, and thank God they are now teaching it in the schools through the abstinence only programs, is that men want sex and are willing to marry women and give them affection for it. Women, on the other hand, were designed to desire affection and security, so they are willing to give in to sex in order to get security and affection.
Now think about! If women really liked sex as much as men do, there would be no need for all this negotiation and no need for marriage. We’d just be all running around having sex, and there would be no families and nations would crumble. God, in His infinite wisdom, designed women to put up with sex, not crave it the way men do.
He also made women pliable creatures eager to please men. So, when men selfishly try and convince them that they like sex just as much as he does, women try very, very hard to convince themselves that it is true. They go along with it for awhile, but eventually they get so disgusted with themselves for living a lie that they either give up on sex forever or divorce the jerk who put them in this impossible situation in the first place.
Guys, if you want to have a long lasting marriage, tell your wife or wife to be that there will be sometimes that you expect sex, and that it will be her obligation to provide it, but that you understand that her needs are different and that sex can be a duty, and you vow not to abuse the privilege. Yes, occasional non-procreative sex can bring a man and woman closer together, primarily because pleasing a man sexually makes a woman feel more valuable and important to her husband, but if she has to do it all the time she is only going to resent it and you.
There will be temptations, and while I don’t consider myself a sex expert (and we know what THOSE people are like), I do consider myself an expert on not having sex. Here are some tips.
1. Don’t date plain women. Really beautiful women know that they don’t have to put out. Plain women feel that they need an edge, so they will throw themselves at you. You are much safer with beautiful women- even if most turn you down when you ask them out.
2. Don’t spend time alone with women. Make sure that when you are together, it is in a public place with lots of people around.
3. Women are for dating, guys are for socializing with. If you just want to hang out, hang out with the guys. Spending too much time with women leads to familiarity and temptations.
4. When you see a woman and you have a sexual response, think of how many sexual diseases she probably has.
5. Spending time trying to make yourself more attractive is a mistake. If she really loves you, she will love you for yourself and not how you look. Don’t try and tempt her with surface images.
6. Movies are a popular place for dates, but also a darkened environment ripe with temptation. On dates, only go to G rated movies where there will be lots of kids and her focus will be on thinking about family, not sex.
7. Open mouth kissing, besides being a good way to get AIDS, is to be avoided at all costs. It opens the dam, and you may wind up damned!
8. Date only one woman at a time. If that does not work out, try dating another. Dating multiple women at the same time will get you to comparing them and wondering which one is the best in bed- and maybe even trying to find out!
9. Never ever, ever masturbate. It just primes the pump and can lead to a loss of self control.
10. When ever you start thinking about having sex with someone, imagine that your mother can see into your mind and what you are thinking. You want to only have thoughts she would approve of.
It is a well-known fact that homosexuals can not reproduce, so where will the next generation of future homosexuals come from? They have to make them, of course, through an aggressive campaign of recruiting. This takes place in our schools, in bars, and anywhere homosexuals can get access to the weak of mind.
It is easy to make homosexuality appealing. It is well-known that there are many times that women don’t want to have sex- during their monthlies, when they are not feeling well, when you are having a fight with them. Men, though, are pretty much ready to go all of the time, so in comparison, the gay lifestyle sounds like a 24 hour a day sex buffet.
According to Dr. Judith Reisman, who was a recent expert in Congressional testimony to Congress on the subject of porn addiction, if we don’t stop homosexuals now, it won’t be long before some 30 percent of the population is homosexual. That is of particular concern to me because this also affects women. When I go out to a bar, or a museum, to meet women, I sort of hope that the women I meet are going to be interested in me. If 30 percent have been converted to lesbians, and some fifty percent are married (a good estimate since we have a 50% divorce rate), that leaves less than 25 percent that are a possibility. Now add in how many of those are fat or ugly, and you can see there is a real problem here. We are talking about potential genocide when people like me can’t find a wife because they are all off with some dyke who won’t be able to give them children.
So, how do we solve this very serious problem? Sure, we can put homosexuals into reparative therapy programs, but I’m going to admit a dirty little secret here. Those programs have an appallingly low cure rate. Recidivism is through the roof. Sure, it works for a few, but I am proposing a cure that I think will work for most.
Remember when you got caught smoking that first cigarette? Your dad probably made you smoke the entire pack. Sure, one was cool, but how sick did you get after an entire pack?
Here is how we can apply the same methodology to homosexuals. Put them in prison. We all know what goes on in prisons. While a homosexual might enjoy man on man sex on his own terms, I don’t think he’ll like it so much when Bubba, Jim Jr., and Big Moe all take turns having their way with him. Being homosexual won’t look so glamorous and trendy then, and I’ll bet that when he gets out, he’ll go looking for a good woman to help him forget the nightmare of too much of what he thought was a good thing.
Modern sex educators have been going around telling people that masturbation is normal, that it is okay. It feels good, just do it, like some ad for a Nike commercial.
For some people, not masturbating can be difficult once the habit is picked up. A favorite anti-porn Web site of mine suggests that you imagine that every time you masturbate, God kills a kitten. That may work for some, but perhaps reflecting on the real dangers of masturbation will be a little more sobering.
As has been pointed out recently in congressional hearings, masturbation produces erotoxins that work directly on the brain and do permanent damage. Now in initial studies they looked at erotoxins caused by masturbating to pornography, but I am pretty sure that further study will show that any form of masturbation produces these erotoxins. It only makes sense. I believe it will be proved that these toxins are a leading cause of violence and crime, as was suggested in the congressional hearings.
That’s bad enough, since it alone will destroy your life. If you read the work of pioneering researcher Harvey Kellogg (yes, the same guy who also invented those delicious breakfast corn flakes on your morning table), you’ll know that an amazing number of diseases have been traced directly to masturbation. While so-called modern scientists may try to refute the work of Kellogg, you show me someone with a disease and I’ll show you a masturbator. It just makes sense, since it depletes your energy and damages your brain, which is pretty much a guarantee of weakening your immune system. That’s just basic science.
Still, these are just worldly problems, and what we should really be worried about is the next world. This is where it gets really ugly. When you masturbate, you are almost assuredly lusting after someone other than your wife, if you have one. The Bible says that lusting in your heart is just as bad as adultery. Now, what was the punishment for adultery? They stoned you to death. Now, imagine facing God and let us say you masturbated once a week for twenty years. That is over 1,000 incidences of adultery! If God condoned stoning for just one incidence of adultery, what do you think He will do to you when you show up with the stain of over 1,000 incidents? I would not want to be in your shoes, I can tell you that!
They say that increasing numbers of people are now living in sin. Cohabitation is the fancy word they use for it. Studies show that many of the people living together don’t stay together. The experiment is an absolute and total failure.
It is a well documented fact that women who live with men before marriage tend to be less educated, less religious, lower social economic status, from one parent homes, more sexually active at an earlier age, have unstable relationships, have lower job status and less happy marriages.
So, you might get a few weeks and even a few years of a free ride on the free love merry go round. The regular sex without the commitment and responsibility might seem like quite the thrill for awhile, as if you are getting away with something particularly naughty, but trust me buster, it won’t last. Sooner or later, it will be over.
But just because she is done with you, that does not mean that God is done with you. First of all, you’ve soiled one of his most precious creations. Now that she’s damaged goods, she is going to have a heck of a time finding a man who will marry her, and trust me, anyone willing to marry her knowing what has been done to her is not going to be any prize. Finally, you have disobeyed Gods law. What do you think was meant when it was written in the Good Book that it is better for a man to marry than to burn? The man who has his fun without marriage is going to burn, so what you thought you were getting for free is really going to cost you, and you’ll be paying for it for all eternity.
If you read the popular press, it sounds like everyone is doing it. Thanks to a pervert President, now everyone is aware of the vile practice of mouth to genital contact. It seems pretty obvious that if God had intended the two to come together, He would not have put them at opposite ends of our body. The excretory functions were put there as a warning: This is no place for your face!
The current interest in oral sex is just another sign of our decaying morality. The idea is being spread across the Internet, so that no one knows how many people are trying it.
Oral sex is like a gateway drug to perversion. Once you can stomach putting someone’s genitals in your mouth, what won’t you do?
I’ll tell you one thing. Fellators and cunnilinguists don’t go to heaven. Can you imagine standing before God and having to tell Him where your mouth has been? I can’t even imagine such a thing.